Lessons I’ve learned, It’s all about Relationships

As Mayor, I’ve learned some valuable lessons along the way—lessons that have shaped how I serve the community and how I work with others. The first lesson is simple but powerful: Make a friend before you need a friend. This job is based on relationships. Building trust and connection before you need to ask for support or help will create a network of allies who are willing to listen, understand, and collaborate when challenges arise. Relationship-building is the foundation of effective leadership, and it takes time and effort to develop genuine connections.

Another key principle that guides my work is Lift as you rise. We’re all in this together. As I navigate the complexities of public office, I make sure to use my position and connections to elevate others. Helping others succeed is a hallmark of true leadership. It’s not just about what I can accomplish; it’s about ensuring that our community thrives as a whole.

Kindness is the currency of the realm. In a world of divisive politics, I have found that leading with kindness is often the most effective approach. When faced with difficult problems or opposing viewpoints, I turn to kindness as a means of fostering understanding and bringing people together. It often creates a path toward resolution when all else fails.

Serving as an elected official isn’t easy. It’s often lonely, and the weight of decision-making can feel heavy. But as I’ve learned, compromise is not a dirty word. Our responsibility is to get things done, and that sometimes requires finding common ground with others. We are elected to serve, to listen, and to lead—together, with respect and compassion.

Lastly, leadership is about knowing your role and doing your homework. Be prepared to make hard decisions. There are no shortcuts to relationship-building, but when you’ve built those relationships, made informed decisions, and led with integrity, you’ll know you’ve done the work necessary to lead effectively. This job, like all public service, is a calling. It fuels my passion for creating positive change in Beaverton.

Lacey Beaty was elected Mayor of Beaverton in 2020. Prior to serving as Mayor, she served for six years on the Beaverton City Council.